Korean usually expresses “please” through the whole request, especially its ending, rather than one word you add everywhere. Learning a few patterns will help you order coffee, ask for help, and make everyday requests politely.
This matters because the expression often translated as “please” in a dictionary can sound like pleading in an ordinary café order. The phrase you need depends on whether you want an item, an action, or a favour that takes someone’s time.
Start with the practical examples below. Romanization is a pronunciation aid, so read the Hangul alongside it. As you practise, try recognising the Korean phrase without relying entirely on the Roman letters.
1. Use 주세요 When Asking for an Item
주세요 (juseyo) means
“Please give me…”
In an order, it often translates more naturally as
“I’d like…” or an item followed by “please.”
It is not a separate word that means “please” in every situation.
It is a polite request expression connected with giving.
Put the item you want before it.
Customer: 물 주세요.
Mul juseyo.
“Could I have some water, please?”
Employee: 네.
“Sure.”
물 주세요 (mul juseyo) is useful at a restaurant.
You can replace water with another item you need.
Short does not automatically mean impolite.
Customer: 메뉴 주세요.
Menyu juseyo.
“Could I have a menu, please?”
메뉴 주세요 (menyu juseyo) asks for a menu.
Say it in a calm, friendly voice.
In a café, adding the quantity makes your order clearer.
Customer: 아메리카노 한 잔 주세요.
Amerikano han jan juseyo.
“One Americano, please.”
Employee: 따뜻한 걸로 드릴까요?
“Would you like it hot?”
아메리카노 한 잔 주세요 is a complete polite order.
Here, 한 잔 means one cup.
You do not need to add another word for “please.”
2. Ask Someone to Do Something with -아/어 주세요
When you want an action, Korean often uses a verb followed by
-아 주세요 or -어 주세요.
The form changes with the verb.
Learn useful complete phrases before trying to build every
request yourself.
Please wait
기다려 주세요 (gidaryeo juseyo) means
“Please wait.”
Add 잠깐 to ask someone to wait a moment.
Employee: 잠깐 기다려 주세요.
Jamkkan gidaryeo juseyo.
“Please wait a moment.”
The verb is 기다리다, “to wait,”
but the request uses 기다려 주세요.
This is why you should not simply attach 주세요
to a dictionary-form verb.
Please help me
도와주세요 (dowajuseyo) means
“Please help me.”
It can be an everyday request or an urgent appeal,
depending on your voice and the situation.
Student: 이 문제 좀 도와주세요.
“Could you help me with this problem?”
Please say that again
다시 말해 주세요 (dasi malhae juseyo)
means “Please say that again.”
It is useful when you miss something in conversation.
Learner: 다시 말해 주세요.
“Please say that again.”
For more respectful wording, try
다시 말씀해 주세요 (dasi malsseumhae juseyo)—
also “Please say that again.”
말씀 is the respectful word for speech.
This can be useful with a teacher or someone you have just met.
천천히 말해 주세요 (cheoncheonhi malhae juseyo)
means “Please speak slowly.”
These requests are polite, but a larger favour may benefit
from a gentler question form.
3. Make a Request Softer with 좀 or a Question
좀 (jom) is a shortened form of a word
meaning “a little.”
In requests, it often softens what you are asking
rather than specifying a small amount.
Customer: 물 좀 주세요.
Mul jom juseyo.
“Could I have some water, please?”
물 좀 주세요 does not necessarily mean
“Give me only a little water.”
In a restaurant, it may simply be a polite request for water.
Context tells you whether quantity matters.
However, 좀 is not a magic politeness word.
A sharp voice can still make a request sound impatient.
Your sentence ending and delivery matter too.
A useful question pattern is -아/어 주실 수 있어요?
It asks whether someone can do something for you.
For example,
도와주실 수 있어요? (dowajusil su isseoyo?)
means “Could you help me?”
Student: 이 문제 좀 도와주실 수 있어요?
“Could you help me with this problem?”
At work,
확인해 주실 수 있어요?
(hwaginhae jusil su isseoyo?)
means “Could you check it?”
Make clear what you want checked.
Colleague: 이 파일 좀 확인해 주실 수 있어요?
“Could you check this file?”
This question gives the other person room to respond.
It can sound more considerate when your request takes time
or interrupts what they are doing.
It works in polite everyday conversation at school or work.
4. When to Use 제발 and 부탁드립니다
제발 is for pleading, not ordinary orders
제발 (jebal) is an emphatic
“Please.”
It can express desperation, pleading, or frustration.
That makes it quite different from the routine “please”
in an English coffee order.
Friend: 제발 가지 마.
Jebal gaji ma.
“Please don’t go.”
제발 가지 마 is casual speech.
Adding 제발 does not make the ending polite.
For a normal café order, use 주세요 rather than sounding
as though you are begging for a drink.
부탁드립니다 fits formal requests
부탁드립니다 (butakdeurimnida)
is a formal, respectful way to make a request.
Depending on the sentence, it can mean
“I kindly ask…” or simply “Please…”
It is useful in professional messages and formal interactions.
Employee: 확인 부탁드립니다.
Hwagin butakdeurimnida.
“Please review this.”
확인 부탁드립니다 asks for a check or review.
The surrounding message should explain what needs reviewing.
It is not a phrase to attach to every order or conversation.
부탁해요 (butakhaeyo) is an everyday polite expression
meaning “Please do this for me”
or, in context, “I’m counting on you.”
It works when the favour is already understood.
Person A: 내일 식물에 물 줄 수 있어요?
“Could you water the plants tomorrow?”
Person B: 네.
“Sure.”
Person A: 부탁해요.
“Thanks. I’m counting on you.”
5. Casual Speech, Pronunciation, and Common Mistakes
줘 (jwo) is the casual counterpart
of 주세요 in requests.
Use it with people you already speak to casually,
such as a close friend.
Friend: 물 좀 줘.
Mul jom jwo.
“Can you give me some water?”
물 좀 줘 is casual, even with 좀.
With an unfamiliar employee, choose
물 좀 주세요.
Someone being younger or your age does not automatically
make casual speech appropriate.
기다려 (gidaryeo) means “Wait”
in casual speech.
Compare it with the polite 기다려 주세요.
A request’s meaning alone does not tell you its politeness level.
Practise 주세요 in three syllables:
주 / 세 / 요.
Close your lips for the final ㅁ in 좀.
Listen to Korean examples rather than reading the Romanization
entirely as English.
- Use 제발 when you mean an emphatic plea.
- Learn the correct verb form before adding 주세요.
- Choose casual speech only when the relationship supports it.
- Keep your tone calm, even with a polite ending.
After someone helps, say
감사합니다 (gamsahamnida)—
“Thank you.”
It gives the interaction a natural finish.
Customer: 물 좀 주세요.
“Could I have some water?”
Employee: 여기 있습니다.
“Here you are.”
Customer: 감사합니다.
“Thank you.”
Quick Practice
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Politely order one Americano.
Do you need to use 제발?
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Ask your teacher, “Could you help me with this problem?”
Complete the sentence:
이 문제 좀 __________?
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Is 제발 가지 마 polite or casual?
What tells you?
Answers
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아메리카노 한 잔 주세요.
You do not need 제발 for an ordinary order.
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도와주실 수 있어요?
This politely asks whether the teacher can help.
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Casual.
가지 마 is a casual ending; 제발 does not change that.
Try Your First Polite Request
Start with 주세요 when asking for an item,
and -아/어 주세요 when requesting an action.
Use a question such as 도와주실 수 있어요?
when you want to ask more gently.
Save 제발 for situations where you really mean to plead.
Imagine standing at a café counter.
Say “아메리카노 한 잔 주세요.” aloud.
You now have a complete, practical Korean request.
